Assembled in the USA from 100% Chinese parts.

I found it interesting that things went from a three-word general description to one that was quite strongly traditionally-gendered.

Sure, but to be clear, I was following everyone else including you over there. :)

There are lots of women who fit the description if you change "emotionally inaccessible" to "emotionally undemanding" or even "selfless."

I think those are distinctly different situations: he won't tell her, she certainly would if she didn't fear scaring him away.