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Mar. 7th, 2007 01:23 pmI think I've learned something, generally many things, from each of my relationships. And I think on balance learning those things has progressively made me a better boyfriend.
At least, it feels that way. And that realization makes me feel that all of my former relationships were good in some way, even if some of them weren't good in other ways.
It's a cheerful thought.
(Of course, *I'm* not the one who can best judge whether I'm a better boyfriend. :) But I feel like I am.)
At least, it feels that way. And that realization makes me feel that all of my former relationships were good in some way, even if some of them weren't good in other ways.
It's a cheerful thought.
(Of course, *I'm* not the one who can best judge whether I'm a better boyfriend. :) But I feel like I am.)
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Date: 2007-03-07 07:10 pm (UTC)That kind of thinking betrays a remarkable lack of self-awareness, or perhaps a very large blind spot centered on themselves.
I like to think that clearing that blind spot was one of the things I learned from someone along the way.
But yes, sadly common failure mode, that.