A poly thought.

[randomness]

Your worth is not measured in the number of sweeties you're seeing.

Your worth is measured in how well you treat the sweetie(s) you're seeing.

Comments

[oneagain.livejournal.com]

my post was inspired by discussion of poly people whining that they weren't seeing enough sweeties.

Well, *I* might whine that I am not seeing enough sweeties. That is *not*, however, me feeling that my worth would be higher. It is just a desire. Could this be a case of semantics, here?

[r-ness.livejournal.com]

Could this be a case of semantics, here?

Not if you're making the distinction that you make here:

That is *not*, however, me feeling that my worth would be higher.

Not all who whine are whining for the same reason. But some are likely whining for the reason I mentioned.