i was more asking what prompted this, as well as commiserating, since i just spoke out about something i feel strongly about, finding out a lot about a friend i didn't know in the process.
Was that a good thing, finding out about that friend? I'm sorry if it wasn't.
(I didn't actually share my opinion, so it wasn't that I had a bad reaction from someone. I just thought about it and then decided I could post what I did.)
I try hard to think of it as data; this is often hard when it's something that hits me emotionally, but I remind myself that I make better decisions when I have more information.
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Date: 2013-10-08 12:09 am (UTC)But I would encourage you to speak up when you feel strongly, but judge when and where that's best.
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Date: 2013-10-08 12:13 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2013-10-08 08:43 am (UTC)(I didn't actually share my opinion, so it wasn't that I had a bad reaction from someone. I just thought about it and then decided I could post what I did.)
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Date: 2013-10-08 02:30 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2013-10-08 02:33 pm (UTC)I try hard to think of it as data; this is often hard when it's something that hits me emotionally, but I remind myself that I make better decisions when I have more information.
I'm sorry, hon. *hug*
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Date: 2013-10-08 07:40 pm (UTC)this is very true. thank you.
*hugback*