I find that I draw a distinction between malicious racism and racism that arises from something well-intended. At least, I do when they're directed at me personally. (I'm perfectly willing to get angry on someone else's behalf if they're upset.)
They're certainly both problematic, but I find that I can often laugh about someone's racist blooper but the malicious racism just pisses me off.
I'll be glad to tell the story, but only in person and not on line.
They're certainly both problematic, but I find that I can often laugh about someone's racist blooper but the malicious racism just pisses me off.
I'll be glad to tell the story, but only in person and not on line.
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Date: 2014-09-23 04:19 am (UTC)No is a perfectly fine answer, though.
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Date: 2014-09-23 05:24 am (UTC)Throwing something at me from a passing car while shouting a racist slur I count as "malicious". (Fortunately, the object wasn't very hard and only kind of grazed my shoulder as it went by.)
The incident which made me laugh isn't one I can talk about on line, sorry.
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Date: 2014-09-23 12:41 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2014-09-23 12:47 pm (UTC)I also seem to treat stubborn ignorance as an important third category.
Sorry people suck; glad they sometimes suck less.
I look forward to hearing the story one of these days.
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Date: 2014-09-23 03:52 pm (UTC)By contrast, the thing that happened recently was something to laugh about.
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Date: 2014-09-23 03:57 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2014-09-23 03:59 pm (UTC)You also seem to have a much higher tolerance for stubborn ignorance than I do. I mean, if your efforts to engage with it on line is any measure. I can't be bothered most of the time, although sometimes I entertain myself by reading comment threads for the dark humor of it all. (Ebola news article comment threads have recently been a prime source of ugly nastiness.)
Go you! Someone should engage, but it's almost never going to be me.
I look forward to hearing the story one of these days.
Sure, it's a funny story. And short!
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Date: 2014-09-23 04:04 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2014-09-23 07:07 pm (UTC)I hope everything went well after I left yesterday!
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