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randomnessOccasionally, I get really angry on behalf of some of my friends because of appearance privilege.
Here's what I mean: I have a number of friends who are really sweet, wonderful people. They often get treated badly, however, in part because they don't fit the societal definition of what people (women, particularly--most of them are women) should look like.
On the other hand, there are a few acquaintances who get away with truly obnoxious behavior because they're conventionally attractive. (I can't think of anyone who fits that description who is actually a friend, for the obvious reason that sufficiently obnoxious behavior tends to drive me away, even when I haven't been directly affected by it.)
There's not much I can do about it except try to be a good friend, but it still rankles.
Here's what I mean: I have a number of friends who are really sweet, wonderful people. They often get treated badly, however, in part because they don't fit the societal definition of what people (women, particularly--most of them are women) should look like.
On the other hand, there are a few acquaintances who get away with truly obnoxious behavior because they're conventionally attractive. (I can't think of anyone who fits that description who is actually a friend, for the obvious reason that sufficiently obnoxious behavior tends to drive me away, even when I haven't been directly affected by it.)
There's not much I can do about it except try to be a good friend, but it still rankles.
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Date: 2009-06-18 06:07 pm (UTC)There ought to be some kind of control question in your customer satisfaction survey for weeding out the surveys submitted by hardcore mouth-breathing idiots, so you can simply put dump those in the circular file.